Dating a senior as a freshman in college
I grew up in a family with parents 10 years apart, so age doesn’t really matter to me.
It’s up to you to decide if that’s your style, but know that it happens and it doesn’t have to be scandalous or “slutty”—but just, in fact, kind of fun.
Find out where the hot spots are each night of the week(end), and make sure to show up every once in a while.
As a new student, you’ll get a feel for student life and get exposed to every kind of guy—frat boys, athletes, pre-meds, business students and artsy guys, too.
It’s not fair to the guy if you’re just not that into him, but you keep him around because he’s, like, obsessed with you.
The puppy dog thing will get old after a while, leaving him feeling stupid/angry and you feeling unfulfilled, annoyed and guilty – not to mention that other guys you might actually become interested in will get the wrong idea.